A path by a river with the title Same Path, Different Journey

Same Path, Different Journey

In Life Lessons by Kathy2 Comments

The other day I was contemplating a choice a friend had made and I thought to myself that if this person would make a different choice he would be much better off. Meaning, that if he would just do things my way, his life would be much happier and more productive. Then I had another thought that caught me up short. It said, “How do you know he’d be better off?”

I didn’t.

I don’t.

Photo of Intermittent Spring in Wyoming

Intermittent Spring

It made me think of a popular hiking path near where I live that follows a small river up to where it emerges from the solid rock of a mountain. It is a tourist destination and the path is wide and well-established. Hundreds hike the trail every year and though their feet travel over the same ground, not one of them experiences the same journey.

Some travel the path quickly, their focus locked on the destination, the journey nothing but a distance that must be traversed in order to attain their goal. Others linger on the path, so caught up in the experience of the present place and moment that it seems they have almost forgotten that they started with a destination in mind. Still others proceed with great bursts of energy only to find that they must stop and rest frequently along the way. Some look down at their feet the whole way, afraid of they will stumble and fall. Others take in every sight around them, unconcerned with the occasional twisted ankle.

The point is, there is no right or wrong way to proceed along the path be it a trail in the mountains or your journey through life. It is an individual adventure. What you find along the way is yours alone to experience and enjoy—or not. Whether you reach your destination is, ultimately, your own choice and your own responsibility. While it may appear that we are traveling the same path, and we may even share the same destination, we are, in fact, on very different journeys.

And that was my lesson. I may encourage you on the way, cheer you on, but it is not up to me to choose, or judge, how you place your feet on the trail.

May you find peace and joy on your journey.

 

 

Comments

  1. This is so beautiful! 🙂 I have been contemplating choices a lot lately, and how one small choice can alter the difficulty or direction of one’s life immensely. It really is our job to simply encourage, lift, and help others along. We can offer suggestions of what we perceive to be an easier or better path. Yet, if they choose a different more difficult path it is their choice. That is one beauty of this life is everyone has been given agency – the ability to choose for one’s self.

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      So true. Agency is a beautiful gift. We just have to remember not to trample on the agency of others.

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